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To the Child I Still Imagine

How bipolar disorder complicated my dream of being a mother — I want you to know I agonized over your name. For years, I filled my journals with the most beautiful, interesting, unusual girls’ names that came into my mind. Sometimes I would be writing about something entirely unrelated and would stop mid-sentence to scrawl a new name into the margins…

Bipolar

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To the Child I Still Imagine
To the Child I Still Imagine
Bipolar

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Jun 27, 2022

The Pain of an Unnamed Suicide Attempt

For five years, I’ve been tending a wound, then a scar, that I said wasn’t real because there was nothing to show for it. — Tiny bits of blue peek through a sheet of blotchy gray, like the blue veins streaking down the backs of my hands, fragile but protected by the thinnest skin. My hands are the only place I can see them, but I know they’re there. I step out in the backyard…

Suicide

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The Pain of an Unnamed Suicide Attempt
The Pain of an Unnamed Suicide Attempt
Suicide

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Dec 8, 2020

“Crazy” Hurts

It’s time to stop calling people “crazy.” — Wearing a hospital gown, my hands trembling, I approach the front desk for the fifth time in half an hour. The woman sitting behind it is already frustrated with me, but I am desperate. I need to talk to my family. I need to get out of here. I am…

Mental Health

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“Crazy” Hurts
“Crazy” Hurts
Mental Health

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Sep 10, 2020

Suicide Prevention is Political

I’m realizing the inadequacy of relationships, personal kindnesses, and hotline numbers alone. — When I think about the things that have allowed me to survive periods of suicidality, I think of people. Family. Friends. Doctors and nurses. Therapists. I think of loving gestures that helped me during particularly vulnerable and high-risk times. The four leaf clover from my aunt and uncle when I…

Politics

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Suicide Prevention is Political
Suicide Prevention is Political
Politics

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Jan 23, 2019

My Eating Disorder Told Me to Be Ashamed

I’m speaking out as I work toward silencing the voice in my head — I am walking through the snow before sunrise. Pristine, untouched—the first snowfall of the year. Branches bend as the flakes continue to accumulate. Little by little over time, they become powerful. They break what’s in their way. They speak. I have been told it is my turn to speak. I…

Mental Health

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My Eating Disorder Told Me to Be Ashamed
My Eating Disorder Told Me to Be Ashamed
Mental Health

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May 27, 2018

In Defense of My Worst Enemy

“While bipolar often feels like my adversary, I’ve spent much of the last year defending and explaining my illness.” — Every two weeks, I take an hour-long bus ride to the psychiatric unit on the edge of town. The bus is always empty; I settle into a seat and crack the window. I try to read, but reading has become more difficult this year. …

Mental Health

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In Defense of My Worst Enemy
In Defense of My Worst Enemy
Mental Health

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Dec 21, 2017

I am lighting a candle for you.

“The pain of realizing how many damn candles people have been lighting in my honor and how few I have been lighting for them.” — I used to be afraid of walking home from the metro after dark. I know we live in a safe area — colorful rowhouses line both sides of the street. Cobblestones. Benches. Parks. Coffee shops. Doormats disingenuously welcome unexpected visitors. “The metro is only ten minutes away,” my husband said…

Short Story

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I am lighting a candle for you.
I am lighting a candle for you.
Short Story

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Sep 16, 2017

Say “Suicide”

I “came out” with bipolar disorder a year ago this week — during National Suicide Prevention Week. It was the most important thing I’ve ever done. Over the last year, I’ve had to lie less. I’ve had to hide less. When I was hospitalized in June, I was able to…

Mental Health

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Say “Suicide”
Say “Suicide”
Mental Health

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Mar 12, 2017

My grandfather, the poets

I grew up thinking poetry was a normal professional field. I thought being a poet was something you’d casually mention at a cocktail party, a mundane fact that would be met with a polite, slightly bored smile. “Oh, great — my daughter is, too,” the host would say, turning to…

Poetry

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My grandfather, the poets
My grandfather, the poets
Poetry

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Dec 16, 2016

Staying to help others stay

“We need you here. Stay.” …We walk slowly and he holds my hand, points out different types of trees and birds on branches. The light is colorless and shines directly into my eyes. They hurt. But he is talking, and I know suddenly that I am not nearing the end…

Mental Health

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Staying to help others stay
Staying to help others stay
Mental Health

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Bryan Barks

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